Life is rough and people do fight once in a while but despite the fact they fight or that they break up sometimes whey would love to be together again. There is no recipe to get your boyfriend back now, each couple is different but definitely there are things that can help a lot in fixing the problem. First thing you have to do is to avoid making mistakes.
Nothing good comes easy so you should know from now you have to work a little bit. It depends a lot the reason why you broke up with your boyfriend, if is his fault or yours, if it’s your you should make a really good plan. Break ups produces a lot of pain in couples and because you don’t like to suffer you should also avoid making someone to suffer. Relationships are about concessions and you should be disposed to make some if you really want to get your boyfriend back, try not to make something he doesn’t like, don’t talk bad about him, try to say only nice things, this will make him feel proud. Make sure you say he is strong because men have the need to protect women. If you want to get your ex boyfriend back you should know that probably he is testing you so don’t get into depression too fast, this will close your mind and will not let you think clear. In the same time, just because you are not doing anything bad it doesn’t mean you have to be extremely nice, this will make them run away, they are bored of too nice girls and you risk to pose in a desperate one. If you have something to say, make sure you tell him first but don’t exaggerate with reproaching things. If possible, try to meet face to face, the impact of the message is higher than when talking on the phone, messaging or talking on the internet. If you are too nice they may think you are passive or you have something to hide. Another thing you should avoid when trying to take back your boyfriend is that you should not try to persuade the boy with logics, he may feel offended, anyone has logics anyway. When trying to get back into a relationship, stop arguing and make sure you can control yourself. Love and feelings don’t come by logics so you shouldn’t put this into the equation, the heart is reactive than logical. Don’t try to play the human doormat when you want to get back in a relationship, boys don’t like this. You should avoid saying words like I’ll do anything for you, this is scary for anyone, even for you. If you say different phrases that will somehow underestimate you, you will definitely lose your respect in front of others.
In the end, there are no certain lessons for getting back someone, it all matters how you act and the secret is to keep everything under good manners, this is the way you can get the respect, friendship and even the love of someone, show them you care for them but don’t transform in something boring.